<i think he would've taken the bodhisattva route - someone who has reached enlightenment to the point where they can attain nirvana, but who stays behind in order to serve other people and help them on their paths.> I keep thinking why this spiritually rich guy might even think of marrying such a "spiritual slut" and then I read this post. Maybe it is exactly that maybe he is thinking of the joy of service when it comes to Muriel. Also someone said on the list that she was just along for the ride. I think she was much more. I really think he tried to tie and shine his shoes for her everyday you koe like in Zooey and she still was blank. I mean the girl makes distinctions of us and them at the dinner party the night before right. I think the marriage is a complete failure not only in that they are different and that she needs to read a sex book called Sex Is fun or Hell but in that after so many years, a complete circle of a marriage since they are the same place they stayed when they were married, Seymour couldn't make a dent in changing her spirit or deepening her at all. I mean she wouldn't even read the books she suggested. I guess I'm rambling again. I think I'll go out and try and hit a four iron. Didn't Salinger play golf. Thanks for listening. Suerte John Paul