If an individual is forced by society to live any way other than as that individual chooses, then that individual is a wuss :) In some cases it may be good that the person's a wuss -- I'd just as soon the two young men who shot up Columbine had succumbed more to societal pressures against mass murder. But, a wuss is a wuss is a wuss.... Jim > >I meant being phony to yourself. To me there is no sadder fate than to >ignore that wonderful, timeless axiom `to thine own self be true'. >It's >truly a quote to live by. If an individual is forced by society to >live in >a way that is against their innermost self, then all the sadder. It >just >seems a shame that Hemingway could not deal with it the way that >countless >other writers could - W.H. Auden, Isherwood, Capote, Vidal, so on (and >I >chose them because they lived in an era in which it was just as >unaccepted >as in Hemingway's time) . It just makes me a little sad that it makes >me >question the vicissicitude of Hemingway's work - all that macho >posturing, >all the gunning and gal-ing - it was all a >masquerade ... > >Camille >verona_beach@geocities.com >@ THE ARTS HOLE http://www.geocities.com/Hollywood/Theater/6442 >@ THE INVERTED FOREST http://www.angelfire.com/pa/invertedforest ___________________________________________________________________ Get the Internet just the way you want it. Free software, free e-mail, and free Internet access for a month! Try Juno Web: http://dl.www.juno.com/dynoget/tagj.