If anyone is watching "The Nanny" tonight, know that cantor David Benedict, the clergyman marrying two of the show's characters also performed my marriage ceremony...Cantor Benedict was well known on both sides of our families and we even taught at the same school when I was getting married. I was pretty pissed when he asked for about half what we got paid to teach one course for the ceremony, but it was worth it--after some quick nonsense, he sang and then comically completed our ceremony with "you sing like a bird" as though god had taken over his voice to praise him...at the time I probably felt like seymour--too happy to be any good to anyone--but that simple touch of humour (expressed in perfect newyawkese!) made it possible for me smile and play the role of groom without needing an understudy...will